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F*ck, I want more kids
🕑 Added 2023-12-30 18:54:31 +0000 UTCHey Tribe,
It’s Erica and what the fuck 🤭 This is a realization that I recently came to over the last two weeks. If you know me and have been listening to the show, then you know, I’ve been pretty honest about not wanting more kids, but also playing with the idea of potentially being convinced otherwise. However, two weeks ago, I had a really profound experience that confirmed that I do in fact, want more children and it’s not about being convinced. Part of my logic when it came to having other kids was that I needed to be OK with the idea of being a single mom again because I can’t control the future or the factors of what my next version of parenthood looks like. Obviously, I have more discernment than I did when I was 27 but I’ve also made some questionable choices since then when it comes to love. However, I’m in alignment with the idea of being a mom, regardless of partnership. This is not to say that this is not the requirement because it is, but I also am OK knowing that I do in fact, want to bring a soul earth side, no matter what.
I will share more about what particular situation with a healthy masculine brought forth this realization in a bonus episode next month ✨
Did you have any surprising realizations come up at the end of this year? Share them below.
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Even after I split from my children's father, I always felt like I wanted at least one more baby. Towards the end of my marriage the spirit of that 3rd baby was so close my kids were seeing the baby around the house and talking to it lol. I've only been with my new love for a year and don't want to rush things, but i'm 42 so that clock is ticking! Thank you for sharing your realization, it helps me feel less alone 💗
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Thank you for sharing ❤️ Life will reveal the unexpected
I had the same realization this year and I’ve been battling with it ever since. I was married for 14 years, we have 3 children, I’ve been divorced for 8, and I’ve been in a new relationship with my partner for a year now after 2 1/2 years of celibacy. I went for a checkup with my OB in October and she did a pregnancy test, and it was positive. However I ended up having a miscarriage. I never even entertained the thought about having a baby, but when she told my test was positive, I just maternal again, and now I actually want to conceive again at the age of 39 lol.
