Khadija Mbowe
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Can the besties just be gal pals?
🕑 Added 2022-09-12 19:00:01 +0000 UTCWelcome to another Patreon exclusive. Sharing more of my unfolding thoughts on performative bisexuality, particularly with the femmesss!
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Catherina (Copious Cat)
Wow this dropped on my bday and I missed this!? Wow! I have had almost the exact experience but no tests or anything. This was definitely refreshing 💀
Catherina (Copious Cat)
Ouuu I felt and sadly live this! I’m still considered young enough to explore and expand but I don’t want to “experiment” with women, I never had a chance to have a “phase/trial” in my early years but 🤷🏽♀️I don’t have anyanswers yet. But, I can totally relate.
sonorasgirl
It is super interesting and frustrating how much having an out or recognized relationship impacts how people view you as bi - I have…weird attraction, and am like 60% for masc folks, 40% for femmes, but like…have been told (or thought!) I’m “not gay”. I get it’s frustrating to have someone who can pass as straight, and escape the discrimination, but I also wonder if my bisexuality would’ve been stronger if I didn’t have internalized biphobia and had been more able to explore my gayness as a younger person. Not trying to blame anyone or anything other than society, just thoughts from a bi lady who grew up in super homophobic background
