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Looks, Money & Status (revised)
🕑 Added 2023-04-12 17:20:21 +0000 UTCI have made a video about this subject last year, if you havenโt seen it, here's the video: https://www.patreon.com/posts/54970033?utm_campaign=postshare_creator
Here's how I would rank them in importance:
1. Money
2. Status
3. Looks
Looks
Now, is this to say looks are irrelevant and you should totally let yourself go?
Absolutely not but YOU DO NOT need to be the most attractive man walking this planet to have a very successful love, dating and sex life.
I love talking about and helping people when it comes to ways they can make themselves to be more attractive because I like subjects to do with health, beauty and aesthetics.
But what tends to happen, especially when I do it with men is that they want to take things to the extreme and start thinking they need to be as attractive as Henry Caville (the guy who plays superman). This why I don't talk about it much anymore.
It's not that deep.
The only time I'd recommend men to get surgery to improve their look is if they have severe facial deformities or fixing a feature which fucks with their self confidence and their self esteem.
E.g.
- Fixing a broken nose
- Fixing messed up teeth
- Fixing a lazy eye (or getting any other vision corrective surgery)
- Getting invisalign or braces
- Getting a hair transplant or Scalp micropigmentation
You get the idea...
Women are the ones who need to be super obsessed about their appearance because as harsh as this may be to say, that's usually what they're judged by and ugly women don't usually go far in life. Even if they have a lot of money.
As men we have the gift of levelling up our money and status to make us even more desired in this world.
As a guy, this is what you NEED when it comes to looking good:
1. A haircut (or beard) which suits your face/head shape. Always stay well groomed.
2. Decent body (not bodybuilder) 3-4 days a week in gym lifting weights is fine
3. A good skin care routine (I have made a video)
4. Sun cream (SPF 50)
5. Dress nice and smell nice.
This is literally it.
As a guy, as long as a woman views you as a 6/10, you're fine when it comes to looks and physical attraction. At this point, you're either her type or not.
Sometimes guys get rejected and think it's because they're not good looking. It's not that, maybe she just ain't into your specific type of look, doesnโt mean you ugly.
Many guys nowadays over obsess about wanting to be the hottest guy walking the street and in most cases, YES! you'll make great eye candy for women and you'll get attention but most women don't even want a guy who looks tooo attractive.
Women are the ones who want to be the better looking ones in a romantic situation so they don't want to be competing with their man when it comes to LOOKS.
Looks is important but please stop over obsessing about the angle of your jawline and how prominent your cheekbones are ๐ leave that for women.
The reason why men are hyper focused on trying to be super attractive is because many men are using online dating sites (nothing wrong with this) and on those sites there's NOTHING ELSE a woman can go off apart from the way a guy looks.
Online dating, meaning apps like Tinder & hinge. Not instagram.
If you are solely using Online dating apps to meet women and NOTHING ELSE then yes, you will need to look good in order to get matches because that's the only thing they can go off.
97/100 women won't say that they're with a guy because of how attractive he is.
They are probably with him for other reasons which mainly have to do with the way he makes her feel or the value and provision he brings to the relationship.
Some of you are thinking "OK but what about one night stands?"
Well, one night stands usually happen in nightclubs and the guys who get the most attention in the nightclubs are the ones who buy tables and that's usually where all the attractive girls are.
And when fun is provided, it makes it easier for women to want to get more intimate with whoever is providing that fun. In this case, the ballers in the nightclub... MONEY!
STATUS
There's something that does it for a woman when they see a man who is in a position of power and leadership.
This is why you see some famous guy still do extremely well even though they're not the best looking.
Women want a man who can provide for them and protect them, and a man with power and social status is more likely to be able to do so.
Status is when you are in a socially recognised for the what you do. Usually being recognised for what you do for work.
When women know you are a 'someone' in society, they automatically come at you with respect. (They don't play any games)
This is mainly because of they see other people value, love and respect you for what you do.
Women come at you different when you are a someone in society especially when you are publicly recognised for the work you do.
MONEY
If you paired amazing looks and high status, it still wouldn't come anywhere close to money.
The most powerful thing in this world is money and resources.
Money is what makes the world go round. Please take a second to REALLY think about this.
Money is a very powerful tool that can make most people borderline do anything you want if you paid them enough.
I don't promote or condone toxic and abusive relationships but MONEY & RESOURCES is a strong reason why many women stay in very toxic and abusive relationships as well.
If you don't take anything else from this Patreon, take this, GET YOUR MONEY UP...Especially if you are a man.
Beauty standards are different around the world, however no matter where you are in this world, most women will pick the guy with loads of money over the guy who's good looking ANY-DAY of the week.
Now this don't mean to become a sucker.
You don't wana be a rich sucker because at that point you become a target for people (men and women) to come around you just to exploit you for their own benefit and leave.
So you still need to be a solid guy with good streets smarts.
Money can influence people.
Money can control people.
People become slaves to resources (women included)
If you have enough money you can even bend certain laws in society in your favour.
In some countries, money can buy you out of a crime you committed.
Money is way more powerful than looks and status. Especially if you have street smarts, masculinity, sweet words and righteousness behind your money too.
Next time you see these attractive women online, pay very close attention to the guys they're around and hanging out with.
Idk about you, but when I see them, those girls are usually around average looking and average height guys. It's just that those guys happen to be very-very successful.
I want to make it very clear, you still need to have good conversational and people skills even if you have money. If you don't, then some chicks WILL finesse you.
You need to have street smarts, righteousness, good character and sweet words behind your money.
In summary, get your money UPPPP! (LEGALLY) and if you can, increase your social status and do what you can to look good without over obsessing about your looks.
Everything is a distraction focus on your personal goals and the money.
- Chambers Jr
- Till Next Time
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