š„± bout to be disowned from my family š„²
🕑 Added 2021-11-09 04:43:34 +0000 UTCHi I just like my outfit in these photos and this is more of a vent post if anything.
Anyway parents over heard me talking about onlyfans with a couple of people, said they didnāt want me on the platform and shit like that. Werenāt mad just they would be pissed if I did one. Iām still gonna make one as Iām in control of my whole body, especially when Iām an adult. Itās more or less just a thing of I wanna dress if cute lewd outfits but I would be ratioed by platforms if I even dare to do that. They donāt really understand. On top of all that, they are debating for moving to Oklahoma and I really donāt want to. I wouldāve liked to stay in Colorado. So it would cost me more money to live in Colorado instead of Oklahoma if I move there because Iāll be moved just to move out in a month or so. So game plan has changed. Horacioās mom was kind enough to offer me to stay with Horacio in California and would renovate a house for me and him later in the future. I would be living there with him for extremely cheap ($400 a month) while also getting a job at Starbucks and I would be able to have my internet career with no shame or judgement from my family. Horacioās mom is also extremely accepting of everything which is very sweet. My parents overheard me talking to his mom and know whatās going on. Kind of scared I will be kicked out before Iām even 18. Today has not been good at all. I have a good plan for the future jusy right now is a bit risky as I may be kicked out before I can even have everything set in place :c idk what fo do man. I know they are gonna get pissed because Iām leaving to go love with a completely different family and a boy. Any advice is greatly appareciated.
Stay safe and thank you all for your support it means the world! šššš
Comments
Tequilatron
If I was given the choice of either oklahoma or California I'd move to Cali personally but who knows maybe your family will warm up to the idea.
I am so sorry you are having a rough go of it. Thereās so much to unpack. If your content was not going to change, donāt make an Ohh Eff for now, stick to Instagram. Just to keep your parents happy. If you and Horacio have a plan, then go for it. Especially if your family is moving to Oklahoma. California is a totally different vibe and it may work out for you. But at the end of the day, your family is your family, for better or worse and you never want to completely cut ties with them. Animosity and distance is not a good combination. ā¤ļø you!
Do what you feel is right for you, but at the same time don't get rid of your support system, I did that and I ended up being in a abusive relationship that I couldn't get out of for months. Not that Horacio would ever do that, but just remember to keep those lines open
BootyEater
Well youāre a female so you live life on easy mode anyway so I doubt youāll ever have any real issues youāll have to deal with such as being homeless or begging for food. So I wouldnāt worry too much, the simps here will give you their life savings if you ask for it.
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Ryan Ortiz
I agree with the above, but wait to have that convo when Horacios mom is ready. A nice safety blanket if the convo turns bad.
Ebb223
It would be wise to hear your parents out because they heave been around a lot longer than you and may have some points you hadnāt considered. Ultimately it is your choice and only you know what best alines with your values and is best for the life you want. Just hear them out first and make sure you tell them what you want and your concerns with what they want for you.
Shoutout to Horacioās mom. She really a real one
Everyone deserves to make their own decisions in life. Good for you for making your own decisions. šš
Just do what you want to do and trust your decision