일방적 몰입과 감정 폭력

rambam

some people are crazy, stay safe Eunzel 😢

불편한 댓글 궁금하네요. 그리고 모르는 사람이 나에대해 알고 좋지않은 감정을 가지고 있다면 저도 무서울것 같아요... 힘든 유튜버의 삶

star2f

별 사람이 다 있네요.. 조심하셔요 ㄷㄷㄷ

Ronny [Rendition]

That sounds scary... Sometimes I think it's a law of nature that usually the person someone is interested in, isn't interested in them and vice versa. But from own experience I know that it's hard for the interested person to realize this. I found that when i'm interested in someone, I often read things into their words and actions that would mean they're interested in me as well. Often times, when we talk about it openly later, it turns out this was never intended by them and instead it was just wishful thinking on my part. As you said, it's sad and embarassing, but I never blame the other person for my misunderstandings. After all, by trying to be close to them, I probably made them feel uncomfortable, too, without realizing it. That's why it's so important to talk about these things. Of course, with reasonable people a serious talk and a clear "No." should be all that is required to clear up the misunderstanding and make them stop. If they like you, they surely don't want to make you feel uncomfortable. Just make sure to put the "No." clear enough, so it gets through their filter of selective perception and snaps them out of their wishful thinking. But there are surely some unreasonable people out there, especially when it comes to somewhat famous people. Then things can become dangerous. So as Tenshi said, please be careful and seek support if required.

Sen Tenshi

Wow, that's scary. Because you are becoming more and more famous, you will have to deal with more things like this... it's not fair but it seems, no one can avoid this. It would be smart not to go to these event and meeting alone from now on, even tho, it was a public area. And if you feel something is really wrong with someone, talk about that person to someone you trust, a close friend or family. It's a safety mesure. Your line of work has it's own dark side and difficulties. 😕 Hopefully it wont made you too distant from the rest of us. Damn our Zellies family have doubled since your last video ! That's a happy thing but it's even more work for you. If you ever get to the point where you can't handle it anymore, because of the amount of work, be sure to set a limit per tiers. Be careful with your health little Zel. 😉

そういう事あると本当に怖いね… ヤバい奴は何もしないで無視してるのが1番じゃないかな！

고생하셨어요ㅜ 항상 은젤님 속삭이는 것만들어서 큰소리로 인사하는게 잘 안 그려지네요ㅎ