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Ronny [Rendition]

You're right about there being hardly any absolute good or bad (except for serial killers and the likes). It's all subjective. As you know, I believe in giving second chances. But if somebody gives you a scar by _ongoing_ bullying (not just a singular incident, but a continuos process), I'd count that as multiple chances wasted. People can change, but it usually takes some external event to trigger the realization that they did wrong. The further they went, the more extreme the external event needs to be to jolt them awake. It's hard to put an exact measure and it's probably individual to both wrongdoer and victim, but after a certain point there can be no way back (and especially no forgiving by the victim).

Sen Tenshi

Thing is, do you guys think people can change ? Or once someone cross the line it's over ? I believe there are only few "good" or "bad" people in absolute. Most people are in between, and they can be seen or remembered as good or bad from individual perspective. This Youtuber celebrity Haneul might be remembered as a bad person for some people, and as a good person for others, maybe. Or is she truely all bad and evil ? I don't know her. Very few people are, i mean, out of all humanity. But some are... Angels and Demon, not in a religious way uh, it's just what they are. Anyway, no one can force anyone to forgive if they don't feel like doing so. Some events leave scars.

Ronny [Rendition]

Thank you for sharing this. Hopefully talking about it can help you gain some distance from it. People are born cruel and evil (humans are predators by biology), children are cruel and it is the responsibility of parents and teachers to turn them into social beings. It does not always work and the victims are chosen seemingly at random. Just being different in any small aspect is enough. Bullying seems to be a very common problem. Out of the few people who regularly comment on the diary posts, at least 2 have faced it in their elementary and middle school days. It may be a weak consolation, but you were definitely not alone in this and it was not your fault at all. Seeing that you grew from it, reading that in the end they were the outsiders instead of you is the rewarding moral of this story. You are stronger than your past. :)

rambam

It's nice that you have a way to talk about all these parts of your past. I do hope it helps even just a little to make these posts about your past where you were treated bad

사필귀정 오졋다

Wow, there was a lot to unpack but i'm glad to have read the rest of your story. Those bullies were really nasty. You certainly did not deserve to be called bad names. Nobody does. I've had my share of run-ins with bullies during my elementary school days and middle school days. There were times I was being called names, being humiliated in the hallways and the shower rooms and I was being told by people that I will never amount to anything in life. I've learnt, later on, not to let those kinds of people getting the best of me. Thank you for sharing your story with us, Eunzel. It's like you painted a picture of how you blossomed into the person you are today. It helps us getting to know you better and it also makes us appreciate you a lot more. Keep being you and keep sharing more of your stories with us. Don't ever let anyone from your past define you. You're awesome. You always are. ❤

Sen Tenshi

I see, i knew it was about her. I've read that on internet. Really interesting diary, it's a little sad but, with a moral lesson in the end. Thanks for sharing and i hope, that bully from the past isn't one of your Patrons ㅋㅋㅋㅋ.