***LOCKTOBER PROBLEMS***
🔒**Problem: I'm in a relationship ..
🕑 Added 2023-09-17 15:00:16 +0000 UTC
***LOCKTOBER PROBLEMS***
🔒**Problem: I'm in a relationship and my partner doesn't like/know about chastity....**
✅Solution: Only engage in a sexual relationship with your partner if it's their idea and they make the first move. Consider asking your partner if they would be okay with you NOT having an orgasm during your next sex. Let them know that when men don't cum during sex, it makes them more attentive to their partner's wants and needs.
You'd be surprised how well women respond to the idea of chastity when you introduce it without all the toys and extremely kinky activities. We want to be served by you, not serve you. Slowly introducing control over orgasm can work wonders in a relationship. Does your partner need you to ejaculate (sometimes or every time you have sex)? Or can't you even imagine discussing the idea of NOT cumming during sex?
Follow Locktober outside of your sexual relationship and keep Me in the loop on any orgasm/sex acts your partner allows. The most important thing is to NOT jerk off! Of course, the mental consequences will be different than if you go a full 31 days without an orgasm BUT you will learn to indulge your sexual side with a much more submissive approach.
🔒 **Problem: I don't have a chastity device**
✅ Solution: Practice mental chastity until you buy yourself a proper chastity device. Mental chastity is the same as physical chastity, only without the penis cage. All the same rules apply, it's just that there is no actual chastity cage on your genitals. Basically, do NOT touch your genitals without permission, except in cases of emergency or for hygiene purposes.
🔒**Problem: I can't wear a chastity cage 24/7 because....**
✅The solution to your problem is mental chastity. See previous paragraph. (Or definitions of a customized schedule that a dominant will give you.)
🔒**Problem: I go to the gym/exercise a lot and I'm afraid of getting injured**
✅ Solution: I've emphasized kink safety many times before, and I'll just say this - you can take off your chastity cage before you start working out and put it back on IMMEDIATELY after you're done and have showered.
🔒**Problem: but I want to jerk off literally EVERYWHERE**
✅ Solution: that's why you need Locktober. To get rid of the addiction ruining your life!
🔒**Problem: people will notice that I wear a chastity cage... So I can't do that**
✅ Solution: If you don't take off your pants and show them your genitals, NO ONE will notice that you have a chastity cage under your clothes. Even if they bump into you and feel it, they will think you just have something in your pocket because 99% of the population has no idea about chastity cages. Besides, NO ONE cares about your dick as much as you do. Maybe it would be noticeable in swim shorts, but you can use the same rules for swimming time as you do for sports.
🔒**Problem: I'm afraid of destroying my potency by wearing a cage**
✅ Solution: If the cage is selected correctly and cleaned daily - it is completely safe for health. As far as potency is concerned - on the contrary it improves your reproductive health, you can read scientific studies on this topic. Practicing long term chastity and staying healthy and hygienic is 100% possible.
