*less is more*
Creating content for this page is one of my ..
🕑 Added 2021-08-08 15:17:55 +0000 UTC
*less is more*
Creating content for this page is one of my favourite pleasures. Over the last year I've become more confident in my skin. I embrace my once hated areolas and I love my body hair and it's chaotic growth.
I think my favourite content to create is the creative stuff, like the thought out photographs you often find on my profile. Lately I've been playing with light and shadows, but dressing up in different coloured lingerie and working with themes has been enjoyable too.
This morning I was reading a girl's instagram and she was talking about the online abuse she gets for being an onlyfans model. Slurs were used about her like "slut," "run through," and statements like "you're just an object" and "nobody wants an onlyfans girl" had been written about her. This upsets me. Were these being said about her because onlyfans isn't warranted as a legitimate job? Because let me dispute that right now - my tax bill is huge! Perhaps it is misconceived that little work goes into running this page, which is another idea I refute entirely. I spend hours here either talking to people, networking, creating content, or sexting. There is always something to be done. I imagine onlyfans is my website and "soft & strong" is the brand I am tirelessly representing on my social media platforms.
I think the real issue I take with people who judge onlyfans models is that time and time again I witness mainly men shaming women for monetising their body. As a woman, I am objectified regardless. My body is judged. My tits are stared at. My armpits are commented on. I want to enjoy my body, and if others want to enjoy it too, fine, let's do that here! *quote from The Joker comes into my mind: if you're good at something, never do it for free.*
What is the problem? Also, as someone who has studied the intricacies of Marxism & communism, you're selling your body 24.7 regardless if you have an onlyfans page or not. I used to sell my body for £11ph as a shop manager, it is the same thing, perhaps it's the nature of the job people are opposed to?
anyway, I am just thinking aloud. men want us to be beautiful, but not to be aware of it. to have tits, but not be proud of them. to be confident, but quiet. to be intelligent, but not opinionated.
thank you to the men here who appreciate my work, my time & my conversation. and thank you for reading this. i appreciate the "man blaming" dialogue is hard to read, but as a woman, we experience much worse in the grand scheme of things. I'm fortunate that I've not received much online abuse, and any that I have received is very quickly rectified by a few conversations with you guys, who actually make me feel talented, worthy & appreciated.
please enjoy this clip. it was filmed a few weeks ago when I created the first episode of "Soft & Strong: An Exploration." I think it's beautiful. Watching me through the lens of the camera, then the lens of my glasses. So subtle. So suggestive.
